Feel free to have sex, masturbate or use your husband in any way you want as often as you like as long as you don’t allow him to climax. PS! Taking away his orgasms doesn’t mean that you have to limit your own. He’ll learn to appreciate that the true reward is the lifestyle itself. In time, if you succeed, this will become easier and you won’t have to reward him this way with the same frequency. The difference here is that he will know that it is a reward and that you’ll be doing it continuously with him wanting it to be this way.Īs your FLR evolves you’ll want to make it harder and harder for him to get his rewards until you find a cyclus that suits your relationship. Women have been using sex as rewards for thousands of years. For example after doing the appointed household chores to your liking, you tell him he has been a really good boy and as a reward he will be allowed to fuck you. You train him with orgasms the same way a dolphin-trainer will slip a fish to a dolphin for doing it’s jump. In the beginning you use his orgasms as rewards. I use a chastity device for this purpose but it doesn’t have to be a device as long as your hubby is 100% committed and understands the importance of you owning his orgasms. Deny In order to get the attention you need from your husband/partner as you domesticate him, you deny him what he loves most of all, his climax. It’s what makes the dynamic in a female led relationship work. The domestication of your man is important for you to be able to feel “in charge” and for him to feel submissive. It is important for the power exchange in the relationship. The process of getting your hubby to accept his new role and take on the household chores is what I refer to as “Domestication”. In a female led relationship the hubby needs to be doing the majority of the housework and accepting this is a major challenge for most men. Your husband/partner on the other hand may begin to dislike it once he realizes his entire life is changing and that it isn’t just a hot fantasy he can wank off to any more. Chances are that you yourself will appreciate the lifestyle more and more as you move along. Once you head down the FLR-road, there might be no turning back. First of all you both have to agree that this lifestyle is what you want and worth the effort. By dragonflyhive, I call them my four D’s… Domesticateĭominate Domesticate Establishing a successful 24/7 female led relationship is a lot of hard work on both parties and on many levels.
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